The Way I Used To Be
by Amber Smith
Age rating: Ages 17+ · Young Adults
Age rating and Christian content guidance for parents.
First published 2016
A teenage girl named Amelia struggles with the aftermath of sexual assault and her journey toward healing and reclaiming her voice.
Concern Level
Extreme
Virtue Level
Present
Concern Level
Extreme
Virtue Level
Present
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Things to consider
Higher = more presentThe book deals with the aftermath of sexual assault and its impact.
The story depicts the emotional and psychological impact of violence.
Some profanity is used to reflect the character's distress.
No blasphemous language or themes are present.
The character experiences significant emotional distress and despair.
The narrative explores themes of self-harm and suicidal ideation.
The focus is on emotional realism, not horror.
No occult or witchcraft elements are featured.
No LGBTQ+ themes or characters are present.
The worldview presented is secular and focuses on personal resilience.
No negative portrayals of God or Christians are included.
Virtues to celebrate
Higher = stronger presenceAmelia shows immense courage in confronting her trauma.
No explicit Christian faith elements are present.
Themes of self-love and finding support are present.
Themes of healing, speaking truth, and finding strength are central.
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