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Young Adults · Ages 14–17

So hard to say

by Alex Sanchez

Age rating: Ages 14–17 · Young Adults

Age rating and Christian content guidance for parents.

First published 2004

Alex, a closeted gay teen, navigates family expectations and his own desires in this coming-of-age story.

Concern Level

67/ 100

Heavy

Virtue Level

13/ 100

Thin

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Things to consider

Sexual Content60

Alex and his boyfriend share a passionate kiss and discuss their relationship.

Violence / Gore10

A brief mention of a fight occurs between characters.

Profanity / Language20

Mild profanity like 'damn' is used by characters.

Blasphemy0

No blasphemy is present in the story.

Substance Use0

No instances of suicide or self-harm are depicted.

Suicide & Self-Harm0

No instances of suicide or self-harm are depicted.

Scary / Disturbing0

The story does not contain scary elements.

Occult & Witchcraft0

No occult or witchcraft themes are present.

Sexuality & Gender Themes80

The central conflict revolves around Alex's gay identity and relationships.

Worldview & Spirituality10

The story focuses on secular teen life and relationships.

Anti-God or Christian Portrayal0

No negative portrayals of God or Christians are present.

Virtues to celebrate

Courage & Sacrifice20

Alex shows courage in facing his identity.

Faith & Hope0

Christian faith is not a focus of this narrative.

Love & Friendship40

Alex experiences romantic love and explores its complexities.

Forgiveness & Redemption10

Themes of self-acceptance are present, but not Christian forgiveness.

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