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Young Adults · Ages 15+

It Had to Be You

by Cecily von Ziegesar

Age rating: Ages 15+ · Young Adults

Age rating and Christian content guidance for parents.

First published 2007

A wealthy teen navigates the social circles and romantic entanglements of Manhattan's elite.

Concern Level

58/ 100

Heavy

Virtue Level

6/ 100

Thin

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Things to consider

Sexual Content70

Sexual relationships and situations are frequently depicted and discussed.

Violence / Gore10

Some interpersonal conflict and emotional manipulation occur.

Profanity / Language50

Profanity is present throughout the dialogue and narration.

Blasphemy10

Casual or dismissive references to religious concepts may appear.

Substance Use10

Themes of emotional distress and unhealthy coping mechanisms are present.

Suicide & Self-Harm0

No suicide or self-harm is depicted in this book.

Scary / Disturbing0

No scary elements are present in this book.

Occult & Witchcraft0

No occult themes are present in this book.

Sexuality & Gender Themes10

Some characters may represent diverse backgrounds or identities.

Worldview & Spirituality20

The narrative focuses heavily on materialism and social status.

Anti-God or Christian Portrayal0

No negative portrayals of God or Christians are present.

Virtues to celebrate

Courage & Sacrifice10

Characters sometimes act impulsively rather than courageously.

Faith & Hope0

No specific Christian faith elements are present.

Love & Friendship20

Relationships are often transactional or driven by desire.

Forgiveness & Redemption5

The story offers little emphasis on repentance or grace.

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