
If Only I Had Told Her (If He Had Been with Me, #2)
by Laura Nowlin
Age rating: Ages 14–17 · Young Adults
Age rating and Christian content guidance for parents.
This novel continues the story of Jack and his grief after the death of his best friend, pursuing his relationship with his girlfriend, Sydney.
Concern Level
Heavy
Virtue Level
Thin
Concern Level
Heavy
Virtue Level
Thin
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Things to consider
Higher = more presentKissing and romantic intimacy are depicted between Jack and Sydney.
No violence is present in the story.
Mild profanity is used sparingly by characters.
No blasphemy is present in the story.
The central theme is the protagonist's struggle with suicidal ideation and grief.
The protagonist experiences significant suicidal ideation and attempts.
No scary or horror elements are present.
No occult themes are present.
No LGBTQ+ themes are present.
No non-Christian worldview is promoted.
No negative portrayal of God or Christians.
Virtues to celebrate
Higher = stronger presenceJack shows courage in facing his grief and mental health struggles.
No explicit Christian faith elements are present.
Jack and Sydney's developing romantic love is a focus.
The story touches on the difficulty of finding grace after loss.
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