
How I lost you
Age rating: Ages 15–17 · Young Adults
Age rating and Christian content guidance for parents.
First published 2013
This novel follows the emotional journey of a teenage girl dealing with the loss of her boyfriend. She navigates grief, guilt, and the complexities of her relationships as she tries to move forward.
Concern Level
Mild
Virtue Level
Thin
Concern Level
Mild
Virtue Level
Thin
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Things to consider
Higher = more presentKissing and discussions of past intimacy occur.
No violence is depicted in the story.
Mild profanity may be present.
Blasphemous content is absent from the story.
Themes of despair are present, but not explicit self-harm.
The protagonist struggles with intense grief and suicidal ideation.
The story is emotionally intense, not scary.
No occult or supernatural elements are present.
No LGBTQ+ themes or characters are featured.
The story focuses on personal coping, not a worldview.
God and Christians are not mentioned or portrayed.
Virtues to celebrate
Higher = stronger presenceThe protagonist shows courage in confronting her grief.
Christian faith is not a theme in this book.
The protagonist's relationships show evolving love and care.
The journey toward healing implies a form of grace.
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